Give your pet a say in what happens to them when you’re apart, so you both can have peace of mind
Does it stress you out wondering if your pet will be happy with the care arrangements you’ve made while you’re away?
You’re not alone.
Studies show that nearly half of all pet parents worry that their pet will experience separation anxiety.
The good news is that, as an Animal Communicator, I can help bridge the communication gap between you and your pet.
I mean, how would you feel if someone made arrangements for your care without your input?
When your pet has a say in their care, everyone benefits, you and your pet.
If you’re making travel plans or will be away from your pet, now is the time to talk with your animals about what’s coming.
Companion animals depend on the predictability of their day-to-day rituals to feel safe and loved. Feeding times, walks, and cuddle sessions are the anchors that reassure them that all is right in their world. Even minor disruptions in their routines can trigger anxiety.
When you let your pet know ahead of time that you’re going away and who will care for them, it helps them feel included, prepared, and at ease.
What Would Your Pet Choose?
An animal communication session gives you a window into your pet’s perspective. You can ask whether they’re comfortable with the care arrangements and find out if they have specific needs while you’re gone. Including them in the process creates a calmer, more trusting animal.
I also offer practical suggestions and easy-to-implement tips to make your departure smoother for everyone. Whether it’s a simple bedtime ritual or a piece of your worn clothing left for your pet’s comfort, these small touches can make a genuine difference.
Here’s What Some Pets Chose
Katie from Westport had planned to leave her goldendoodles, Rosie and Finn, at a pet hotel. She reached out because she sensed it wasn’t the best choice, but felt she had no other options. Both dogs had returned from their last visit stressed and anxious.
When she asked them what they wanted to do while she was in Europe, their answer was clear and immediate: they didn’t want to return to the hotel. It felt scary and uncomfortable. They said they wanted to stay home, where they felt safe, until she returned.
Katie found a pet sitter to stay at the house, and when she returned, Rosie and Finn were noticeably more relaxed.
Bella the cat told her person, Debbie, from Easton, that she didn’t like the pet sitter who treated her like a dog. She wanted the quiet, calm, respectful one instead. Debbie listened, made the switch, and Bella felt genuine relief.
Benji, a French Bulldog, was equally clear with his person. When Lauren asked whether he’d prefer to stay home with a sitter or visit his grandparents while she traveled, his answer was immediate and joyful: “I feel safe and love that they spoil me!”
When you ask, your pet will tell you exactly what they need.
Both Katie and Lauren reported that their animals did really well while they were away, and they believe that communicating with them ahead of time made a big difference in how their pets reacted.
Simple Ways to Prepare Your Pet (and You!)
- Tell them what’s happening. Speak directly to your pet about your plans, the timeline, and who will care for them.
- Introduce their caregiver early. A visit before departure helps your animal feel comfortable with the new person or kennel.
- Give them permission to enjoy themselves. Many pets hold back out of loyalty. Letting them know it’s okay to have fun genuinely eases their anxiety.
- Trust that you’ve done your part in finding the best care for them. When you’ve included your pet in the process and addressed their needs, you can leave with confidence and actually enjoy your time away.
The Goal: Less Anxiety and Stress When Apart
Including your pet in the decision-making process about their care arrangements can make a world of difference. When your pet has a say, they feel calmer and more at ease. And so do you.
If you’d like to find out what your pet would choose when you’re traveling and have to be apart, CLICK HERE TO BOOK YOUR SESSION.
If this blog post eased your mind, please share it with a pet parent who may need a little reassurance from their pet, before they travel.
