Wondering what your pet wants most this holiday season?
10 out of 10 pets agree they prefer quality time with their humans, based on my totally unscientific research after conversations with thousands of animals over 30 years.
If you asked them, they might say toys and treats are definitely welcome. I know my dog, Yogi Bear, feels this way.
However, what speaks to their hearts can’t be bought, wrapped, or tied with a bow under the Christmas Tree or Hanukkah Bush.
Truly, the most excellent present you can give your pet is your peaceful, loving presence.
From your pet’s perspective, the holiday season and even daily life can feel chaotic and overwhelming at times. Especially when routines change, schedules shift, and diets are disrupted.
All of this can lead to stress and anxiety.
When you slow down and disconnect from distractions like your phone, your to-do list, the constant mental chatter, your animal receives something far more meaningful. They experience you choosing heart-connection.
The simple act of being quietly present together, in a mindful way, is a precious gift that offers comfort and peace to both of you.
Sitting with your pet and sharing a quiet moment says:
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I see you.
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I feel you.
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I’m here for you.
It’s heartwarming to witness what happens when pet parents shift from a constant state of doing to simply being. I’ve seen anxious dogs soften and relax. Shy, nervous cats open up and seek affection. Even horses lower their heads and sigh deeply when their humans settle into calm presence.
This deep relaxation is exactly what I see during energy work; in fact, a recent study showed that 100% of dogs receiving distant Reiki saw a measurable improvement in chronic pain.
So why does this matter so much?
Animals naturally live in the present moment.
We, humans, tend to live in our heads, planning, worrying, multitasking. When we meet our animals with an open heart, being quietly present, trust deepens, understanding grows, and the bond between us becomes richer and more secure.
Here are three mindful ways to offer your pet the greatest gift of all this holiday season:
💟 Pause, Breathe, and Unplug. Take a few quiet minutes each day to sit beside your pet and breathe slowly. Turn off your phone. Let go of distractions. Even five minutes of calm presence tells your animal, “You matter.”
💟 Share a Moment of Gratitude. Silently thank your pet for the love and joy they bring into your life. Gratitude creates a peaceful, heart-centered connection that your animal can feel.
💟 Enjoy Time Together. Whether you’re curled up on the couch or playing fetch, give your full attention to that shared moment. Notice the joy of simply being together.
This holiday season, take a break and slow down. Breathe. Let your presence be your present.
